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13-Jun-2018 02:35

Both sexes shared the role of "pursuer," and also the mutual acquiescence to "hook-ups" (casual sexual encounters that range from kissing to copulating). They are not barred from driving a race car, flying an airplane, becoming a scientist or mathematician, heading up a major company, or even running for president of the United States.

Yet many young girls emulate women who are flexing their muscles on a stripper pole, and not in the boardroom.

Back in the 1590's Helena is cast into the role of pursuer.

A reversal of roles that she herself finds scandalous.

Everyone misses out on developing intimacy if the currency is a "hook-up" and not a date.

I am not suggesting that life is one massive orgy for everyone under the age of 25.

If they are happy and comfortable with casual hook-ups, then no need to change a thing.

As 15-year-old Emma told me, "Sometimes my girlfriends and I hook up with the same guy at a party.

You don't get to know the girls who stand back, because it is too hard to turn away what is in front of your face.

I'm young and horny so I go for the girls who throw themselves at me, but I don't want to date them." The loss of dating, wooing, courting and chasing, lessens the potential for connection and attachment.

18-year-old Jessica explained, "You have a handful of girls who are basically just giving it out 24/7 for free. Not necessarily back to the 1950s, where women were relegated to a passive role, but somewhere in between then and now.

It is self-deception for girls to believe they are powerful because they say, "yes" to a booty call or kiss two boys in the same night.

As 15-year-old Emma told me, "Sometimes my girlfriends and I hook up with the same guy at a party.

You don't get to know the girls who stand back, because it is too hard to turn away what is in front of your face.

I'm young and horny so I go for the girls who throw themselves at me, but I don't want to date them." The loss of dating, wooing, courting and chasing, lessens the potential for connection and attachment.

18-year-old Jessica explained, "You have a handful of girls who are basically just giving it out 24/7 for free. Not necessarily back to the 1950s, where women were relegated to a passive role, but somewhere in between then and now.

It is self-deception for girls to believe they are powerful because they say, "yes" to a booty call or kiss two boys in the same night.

Five years ago, my daughter came home from her middle school social psychology class and informed me that every generation has a name.